At the time of this post, there is yet again, another looming US Government Shutdown. No lies told, the last one left feeling some sort of way. Basically, it left me feeling stressed, anxious, and scared. Before I get into this episode while I do have certain political leanings, this is not a political post as I only want to talk about how observing the situation affected me emotionally. I’ve decided to keep this episode unedited.
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Hi Everyone,
My name is Michelle Jackson and I have Financial PTSD. While I don’t live in constant financial fear, there are moments that trigger the emotions and physical memories of past financial stressors.
The Government Shutdown was one such stressor. Watching the stories of people who were completely broke, working hard, and then many of whom were required to go to work and not get paid.
That pushed me over the edge.
I’ve had the experience of employers messing with my money. When I was helping my mom out I picked up a side-hustle at a small retail store…that I soon discovered was in the habit of floating checks. My employer at the time would say that the checks were on the way, they were in the mail, or they needed a few days. Then, they would pay us.
I had to leave when one of the other girls working with me had a paycheck bounce and all of her outgoing payments bounced too. Why did I stay at that job? Because at the time it was hard even getting that job.
I’ve had employers place unreasonable expectations on me and not even reciprocate with PTO, raises over 3%, or performance reviews that were above mediocre because they weren’t allowed to score employees above a certain percentage for performance.
There is a reason why I work so hard figuring out how to make money that I generate myself.
Government jobs are supposed to be the most secure jobs out there. Well I decided to research how many times the government has shutdown. Was it just a phenomena from the past 10 years?
Nope-they have been happening since 1980. Some lasted hours, others lasted days. The most recent one lasted for 35 freaking days.
Government jobs are not secure and they basically made workers modern day slaves by requiring them to work without compensation. I personally don’t give a crap about the “back pay” bull crap.
When walk outside your door you are immediately spending money and making money choices.
- Should I take the bus/lightrail/or Lyft?
- Should I bring or buy my lunch?
- Should I purchase a cup of coffee or something to drink
As I watched people talk about how they had less than two dollars on them, or that they had to go to the food pantry, I was freaking triggered.
Fortunately, I’m at the point where I recognize when this happens and have gotten better at managing the stress.
- I acknowledge that there are situations that I will find financially upsetting and will remind me of really stressful times in my financial and personal life.
- When these moments happen, I try to remain calm and focus on what I CAN control.
- I’m clear about the fact that I will have to work on money mindset every single day for the rest of my life.
- I celebrate my financial wins and focus on what I need to learn from what I consider a financial fail.
- I’m mindful to remain empathetic when other people share their financial stories. Who am I to judge?
- Whenever possible I focus on helping others which empowers me and is helpful to others.
- Have you ever experienced Financial PTSD? How does it feel to you? For me it’s:
- Extreme anxiety
- I detach quite a bit, if it’s really bad I get really depressed. I had that happen last summer and it was pretty bad.
- I get migraines or panic attacks
- I share this because even though I’m a personal finance blogger, I’m a human being first. A couple of weeks ago I shared a podcast episode about the need for more empathy in the personal finance community. There is a reason that I am empathetic to the needs, struggles, and cares of the women (and some men) who read and follow my blog.
In the next couple of days we may experience yet ANOTHER government shutdown and I’m being very careful about managing my wellness as we watch the events of the upcoming days unfold.
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