As you know, I recently quit my job and am currently in Australia getting reenergized. Recently I realized that I didn’t really mention what my plan is for the immediate future is in my “I quit” post.
The Plan
I will be working for myself and my primary focus will be lending support to local businesses and non-profits. I am very passionate about helping small businesses thrive and move to the next level. I also have a Master’s Degree in Public Administration with an emphasis in Non-Profit Organization Management. So I understand many of the issues that non-profits are faced with in working their mission and helping their clientele. I am writing a post about this and will have it up in the next week.
I thought that I would spend some time today talking about the #1 mistake that I made on the road to working for myself because I want you to avoid making this mistake if this is this is something that you’re considering.
In the 2 years before I quit my job I started blogging pretty seriously, in addition to the blogging I was also: Side hustling, running events for the organization that I worked for, commuting 20 hours a week (about 4 hours a day) and trying to spend time with family and friends.
By the way, I was blogging around 20 or more hours a week. So, needless to say-I was freaking tired. In fact, before I hit the peddle to the metal and added the blogging I was already bone wearingly tired from years of commuting.
The #1 Mistake That I Made:
Was underestimating how tired I was and taking on too much. I started taking on clients and also writing for other people. The thing is, there is a breaking point and I was beyond that point when I started adding these jobs to already full plate.
This meant that the level of consistency and quality in my work wasn’t as high as I or my clients would have like. And, no-no one said anything to me but I used to manage people so I know what I used to look for in people who worked with/for me or collaborated with me and I was way too tired to do 1/2 of the things I was trying to do in the way that I would have liked others to manage projects when working with me.
Being tired affected the following:
- Communication-Often, I would fall asleep on the bus during time that I had allocated to answering emails, etc. While emails would get answered the same day-I was probably not answering emails as quickly as clients would have liked.
- Focus-I was too tired to focus.
- Consistency-Because I was so tired I would forget things-I mentioned in my I quit post that I slept for 3 weeks straight after I left my job and that I haven’t felt this mentally sharp in YEARS.
- Energy-I didn’t have any energy and it was a daily struggle just to function normally.
While this level of exhaustion only really affected 2 of the clients that I was working with, I want to be known for a high quality of work, professionalism, and consistency by ALL my clients. In those two clients’ experience with me while I was professional-consistency was an issue.
It is not a coincidence that I have increased my productivity since I got some much needed rest. It’s also not a coincidence either that I relaunched Colorado Luv Hub. I have the time and clarity of thought to really focus and work on these projects.
Some Things That I Did Do Well:
I did do some things well on the road to working for myself.
- Took time off to rest-I did take a lot more vacation in 2014 than I had been in the habit of doing. I used those days to rest, catch up on projects, umm and to rest!
- Took A Time Assessment-I took a time assessment in the Spring that told me that I was so over committed that I couldn’t possibly keep up. I wish that I had actively applied that knowledge to how I was adding clients.
- Worked on small projects-I took small projects a did those really well. Where I felt I struggled was in communication with my clients.
- Asked Questions-I am pretty good at asking questions and by asking questions I was able to clarify some stumbling blocks that would have come up on some projects.
If You’re On The Road To Working For Yourself:
Ask yourself the following questions:
- What can I realistically do in the time that I currently have and ROCK what ever commitment I’ve made to my client and myself?
- What can you give up in order to make what you want happen? I worked at this pace for many years but the last 2 years were brutal. Finally I had to let some duties go at my day job. I was open to other people planning events for our clients at work and that did free up time that had been previously allocated to work. I didn’t resist this change and was happy to see some of my work responsibilities shift to other people.
- How long can I take this pace? I worked at a pace that was not healthy for way too long. One year was probably manageable but the number of years that I did it was not. If you’re increasing your work load be honest with yourself about how long you can manage a brutal pace.
- Work An Exit Strategy-Part of why it took me so long to leave was I didn’t have a clear exit strategy in mind. Sometimes this happens. But, once I figured out my plan I focused in on it and that really helped keep things in perspective.
How To Recover When You Stumble Towards
Self-Employment?
I was being pretty hard on myself and then I thought, it’s better to learn these lessons in the beginning than further down the road. I have regrouped and started with a clean slate for 2015. One of the biggest things that I will be focusing on is consistency and communication. In my previous job I was known for both (and was dealing with foreign embassies and the U.S. Government) so I will be applying those old skills to my new business.
I Will Regroup in The Following Ways:
- Set protocols and best practices for business communication and make sure that these are clear to my clients.
- Be careful about taking on too many projects. I want to be known for a high quality of work. I used to work with 100’s of people everyday. Now I want to work with a much smaller number of people so that I can serve them really well in the whatever capacity that we’re working together in.
What Was Your #1 Mistake To Self-Employment?
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Tonya@Budget and the Beach says
yeah work will suffer for sure if you pulled too many different directions and especially if you are dog tired all the time. I put such a huge emphasis on good quality sleep in my life above many other things.
Michelle says
You cracked me up one time when you commented on how important sleep was to your daily life. I was so freaking tired at the time and all I could think at the time was “Word!”
believeinabudget says
I still have my day job but have side hustles that take up a lot of my time. I had a hard time juggling it all and ended up getting burnt fast. I even shut down one of my side hustles (ecommerce site) and told my vendors and retailers I was temporary closing. I was too exhausted and stretched too thin! It felt so good to take a break! I am still debating relaunching, but am not ready! I am still trying to figure out the right balance.
Michelle says
I love side hustling but I just really didn’t understand how tired I was and how much it affected the quality of: my work, my interactions with people, etc. You were rocking it with an ecommerce site and side hustles! I think that we’ve gotten too comfortable pushing ourselves beyond what is healthy and not being able to recognize when we’ve hit our breaking points.
Emily @ Simple Cheap Mom says
When I quit to start my own business I immediately got sick and slept for weeks too. Sometimes you don’t realize how hard you’re pushing yourself until you stop. So glad you’ve “rebooted” and are ready to take on this new adventure now!
Michelle says
I was so shocked by how tired I was and I still find myself craving a lot of sleep. I feel a lot better and my productivity has gone way up.
Mrs. Frugalwoods says
First of all, I know I’m late to the party, but congrats on making this huge move! That’s awesome! Way to go! Secondly, I have the exact same MA as you–small world :). Where’d you go to school for it? (I went to American University). Third, I’m really excited to hear more about the work you’ll be doing with non-profits. Fourth, congrats again!!!
Michelle says
Haha! That’s ok! I went to University of Colorado-Denver. Thanks for your support. I am so excited and really looking forward to moving forward on this project.
wags2182 says
Hi, Michelle,
Interesting post. I think my #1 mistake has been the opposite of yours – not taking ENOUGH action! Thinking and planning too much, instead of just going out and hustling to make things happen. I’m getting better about it, but that’s still my struggle.
Be well!
Andrea
Michelle says
Ooohh! That is a hard one. I actually did that with quitting my job. I spent a lot of time over thinking quitting my job and not taking action. But, I think you take action when you’re ready.
Toni @ Debt Free Divas says
Taking on debt to start a business. By far #1 mistake. Still waiting to unwind from that unfortunate experience now.
Michelle says
That one is really hard because a lot of people take on debt to launch their business. Will you do a blog post about that??
diane @smartmoneysimplelife says
Hope you’re enjoying your trip down-under! We’re a pretty relaxed lot so hopefully that’s rubbing off on you, too.
It’s funny how you have no idea how totally trashed you are until you stand still for a while. Once the momentum is gone, you come crashing down. I think most of us who work for ourselves, and did double (triple) duty before making the big break have experienced the same phenomena.
Make sure you take the time you need and be kind to yourself. Stop and smell the roses when you can – that’s one of the true joys of being self-employed.
Cheers,
Michelle says
It is a wonderful trip so far and I’m really enjoying it. I actually find the lifestyle here to be very similar to mine in Colorado…except with a lot of amazing water! I have some wonderful friends really helping me out while I’m here. I’m trying to really get into a routine so it’s not too difficult when I get back.