Switching To A Cash Budget

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During my trip I spent a lot of time thinking. I was thinking about how far I had come and how far I still had to go and that this debt freedom thing is not for the faint of heart. I had said that I was starting a Cash Only Challenge only to have to reboot twice. I am switching to a cash budget, but first I need to spend some time…

Reflecting on the Past 3 Years

My plan was to start this challenge this week but it’s just not going to happen. So, I will begin this challenge next week. This post is a bit of a ramble but will get to the cash budget part as you read through it.

I have broken a lot of habits in the past couple of years and my mind is in a very different space than before. In fact, I feel pretty empowered right now. I feel like the world is my oyster and that there are so many opportunities out there to be successful, to change my life, and to move forward. I don’t just believe this-I know 🙂

I wrote a post about a year ago that talked about a personal finance blogger’s worst nightmare…basically, that post was prompted after reading a post written by couple who was struggling and had made very little progress in the 5 year debt freedom journey that they had chronicled on their blog. In fact, the reaction to their post was so harsh they took their blog down.

Their story resonated with me…because they were living my worse nightmare.

Not Making Progress, Not Becoming Debt Free

The thing is I’ve changed quite a bit since that post and I have a different take on that couple’s financial journey based on my experiences and personal growth since 2012.

I’ve made a lot of progress…but not necessarily debt freedom. I DID do the following in the past three years:

Paid off debt
Learned better money management skills
Surrounded myself with a supportive tribe of people
Cut my monthly expenditures
Worked on my Depression that was made worse because of the debt
Addressed issues concerning being STUCK in my life
Quit my job
Started taking risks again
Looked fear in the eyes…and am still here

Before I Could Totally Kill The Debt I Had To Deal With What Was In My Head

I believe that couple couldn’t take care of their debt issue because they had life issues that needed to be addressed first. They had to deal with the “why.” Why weren’t they progressing?

Such as:

Why were they compelled to spend?
Why did they feel a sense of lack?
What triggered their spending?
What was the role of their family in their spending.
What was the role of friends in their spending.
And, as partners their “why” would be different for each partner

My List or Issues:

Watching my mom work like a dog when my parents divorced and how it made me feel as a child.
Money seemed like a stressful thing instead of empowering. So, I was intimidated by the idea of actually having money.
Not having a clear idea of what I wanted and not having action steps to get what I wanted.
Needing a clear understanding of the role of my family in my money decisions and letting go of the negative lessons that I learned from them and holding onto the positive lessons taught to me by my family.
Believing that it was even possible for me to turn things around.

Why The Debt Journey Can Take Longer Than Expected

Sometimes you have to deal with the crap in your head before being able to make substantive and sustainable progress on debt. You’ve read 3 years of me just working through my sh$t.

It has taken 3 freaking years to deal with what was in my head. And it was worth every painful moment. Every blog post, every tear that I shed, every private journal entry, and every long-winded conversation that I had with you, with myself, and with my friends and family.

I have laid down the foundation to my success in the future and it is a very humbling feeling to think that I’ve made so much progress.

I was held back by so much fear and so I didn’t move forward in more ways than one.

I’m So Done

With this conversation about debt. It has gotten old. It’s time to do something that I think a lot of people would find difficult to do and maybe bit frightening.

Switching To A Cash Budget for the Next Year

Because every time I use credit I back slide. Even when I pay things in full. The thing is I had rocked my debt repayment until I had my bout of Depression in October which helped solidify my commitment to leave my job that was holding me back.

So, I find myself still in debt. But, in such a different mental space as I’ve spent so much time working on me.

Credit is too easy.

Cash offers a simplicity in dealing with finances because you have to be clear about your wants and needs.

And that’s where a lot of us struggle.

But, I’ve spent so much time working on what I want that I don’t need to figure that piece out anymore.

What I Want

Debt freedom
Simplicity
Hiking days
Snowboarding days
Hanging out with my friends
Time to do what I want
Coffee dates
To make REAL money
A challenge
A family
Travel
My property paid off

That’s about it.

What I Don’t Want

3 more years of debt

I Have Nothing To Prove

To The Jones’s-don’t really care about what they are up to.
To My Friends-Luckily, they are super supportive of my dreams and are always in my corner. Now that I’ve grown my tribe I can move forward with the type of support that I need.
To The Naysayers-There will be people who think that I won’t succeed. That’s ok.

So, I Am Switching To Cash

The part that I’m struggling with is the travel component. Usually we have to reserve hotel rooms with credit cards. For those of you who use a cash only budget could you help me with this??!! Do you use debit cards?
I quit Dave Ramsey-do you have someone else to recommend who uses a cash only philosophy? I would love to read some new books on this topic.

The Framework

Bills-These are basically set up as automatic debits through my checking account.
Switching from Credit Cards-Part of the delay is that I have to switch some of my accounts to my checking account
Carry Cash-I’m trying to figure out the amount that I want to carry on a daily basis
What Type of Budget? I’ve seen so many budgets out there so I’m trying to tweak how I do things.

Incredible Things Have Started to Happen!

I think the Universe finally believes me! I’ve started to have some amazing things start to happen. They are the result of a lot of hard work, meditation, and trying over and over again to make things happen.

Now Is my time and I can’t wait to be even more audacious. Did you do your Vision Board yet? I did.

And, I’m the thinnest that I’ve been in the past 5 years. Boom.

What Type Of Budget Do You Have? Did You Experience Similar Struggles Before Success Started To (Consistently) Happen?

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